means that there is no blog post for today since I will be linking a post for Ignitum Today on Thursday. So watch this space tomorrow.
Thanks,
The Management
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
When is friendship simply a word for abuse?
Some unpleasantness that took place recently on this blog has made me begin to ponder a few things about the nature of the relationship with an individual I have known for some time. I have been conflicted about what to do or how to describe it.
In the past I considered this person a friend. I was as close as I could be to a person as I was to this person. A trusted confidant and a good councilor.
But lately this individual appears to me more unstable. These days it seems whenever anything of substance is discussed this person becomes hostile, personally insulting, and at times even incoherent. The accusations that have been hurled at me are done so at the drop of a hat, and when countered, this person then wails for being countered.
At what point is a friend no longer a friend? At what point does the present outweigh the past? When does one realize that it is time to simply cast off someone who seems only capable of hurting you?
When I look at the broken friendships in my life I can see that by and large I was left behind. I was the one cast off, and I felt that I did not deserve it.
But I also know that holding on to a person who no longer uplifts but simply attacks is no friend. Friends do not insult or demean. They help, they are honest and charitable in doing so.
I have more questions than answers. The life of Faith is one that calls us to put God before even those we care about the most. I have had to walk away from those I've cared about in the past. I am ultimately better for it. But it is one of those mysteries that haunts me at times.
When there is abuse, there is no longer friendship. When truth no longer exists in a person, there can be no trust.
I ask those who read to pray for me. I have much to discern in this matter.
In the past I considered this person a friend. I was as close as I could be to a person as I was to this person. A trusted confidant and a good councilor.
But lately this individual appears to me more unstable. These days it seems whenever anything of substance is discussed this person becomes hostile, personally insulting, and at times even incoherent. The accusations that have been hurled at me are done so at the drop of a hat, and when countered, this person then wails for being countered.
At what point is a friend no longer a friend? At what point does the present outweigh the past? When does one realize that it is time to simply cast off someone who seems only capable of hurting you?
When I look at the broken friendships in my life I can see that by and large I was left behind. I was the one cast off, and I felt that I did not deserve it.
But I also know that holding on to a person who no longer uplifts but simply attacks is no friend. Friends do not insult or demean. They help, they are honest and charitable in doing so.
I have more questions than answers. The life of Faith is one that calls us to put God before even those we care about the most. I have had to walk away from those I've cared about in the past. I am ultimately better for it. But it is one of those mysteries that haunts me at times.
When there is abuse, there is no longer friendship. When truth no longer exists in a person, there can be no trust.
I ask those who read to pray for me. I have much to discern in this matter.
Monday, February 27, 2012
What is true freedom?
The lovely and gracious Stacy Trasancos post about why believers know more about science than non-believers. It is well worth a read and raises some good points about worldviews and knowledge of them. But I do have a nit to pick with the article, and since I have nothing else to write about at the moment Stacy will be the latest victim of my habit of critiquing fellow Catholic bloggers. Mind you, I do not know what Stacy thinks about the subject of freedom. I am only going off of what she wrote in her article.
The offending quote that I found is the following about freedom:
To say that the unbeliever is more free than the believer is to say something akin to the drug addict is more free than the law abiding citizen. Yes, the drug addict is "free" in that he "can" take drugs. But would anyone call something as harmful as doing drugs "freedom" in a healthy sense of the word? One can say is is free to do drugs, but most likely one would say he is a slave of his addiction.
I have the freedom to reject God's word. Much in the same way I have freedom to throw myself off a cliff. The fact that the former damages my soul while the latter will damage my body does not diminish this freedom. That both are boneheaded things to do does not mean I am somehow "less free" simply because I recognize that these are bad for me.
True knowledge aids in freedom, not by saying that you "cannot" do bad things, but by pointing out that bad things are stupid and dangerous. Sin damages us, no matter how much we want to do it. That is one of the points of the Faith. These things that we do against how God designed us damages us. To point this out is to help us, not hinder us.
True freedom recognizes limits because there are things that hurt us. We can still embrace these things, much like I can put a gun to my head and pull the trigger. That doesn't mean these things are right, or smart, or healthy. And conversely, true knowledge recognizes that freedom, and seeks to inform our conscience of the merits of those choices.
So let us dispense with this notion of freedom that treats eating a fine meal with lacing it with cyanide. I am not less free simply I recognize the harm cyanide does and refuse to consume it. If anything, my knowledge of the harm cyanide causes makes me more free, since I can now exercise my choices in an informed fashion. True freedom seeks the truth, and truth fulfills freedom.
The offending quote that I found is the following about freedom:
Faith is not a human invention. The believer bases faith on Divine Revelation, and bases science on Creation. Both have their common source in God, the Eternal Truth. It is true, the believer is less free in his knowledge than the unbeliever, but only because he knows more.Stacy, say it an't so? This statement subscribes to the modern notion of freedom, which loosely means, "doing whatever the hell one wants." This notion of freedom needs to die. Quickly.
And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. - John 8:32True freedom lies in knowing the truth. Freedom, properly defined, is geared toward the health and well being of the individual and community. If knowledge of the truth is absent, my ability to make my choice is compromised.
To say that the unbeliever is more free than the believer is to say something akin to the drug addict is more free than the law abiding citizen. Yes, the drug addict is "free" in that he "can" take drugs. But would anyone call something as harmful as doing drugs "freedom" in a healthy sense of the word? One can say is is free to do drugs, but most likely one would say he is a slave of his addiction.
I have the freedom to reject God's word. Much in the same way I have freedom to throw myself off a cliff. The fact that the former damages my soul while the latter will damage my body does not diminish this freedom. That both are boneheaded things to do does not mean I am somehow "less free" simply because I recognize that these are bad for me.
True knowledge aids in freedom, not by saying that you "cannot" do bad things, but by pointing out that bad things are stupid and dangerous. Sin damages us, no matter how much we want to do it. That is one of the points of the Faith. These things that we do against how God designed us damages us. To point this out is to help us, not hinder us.
True freedom recognizes limits because there are things that hurt us. We can still embrace these things, much like I can put a gun to my head and pull the trigger. That doesn't mean these things are right, or smart, or healthy. And conversely, true knowledge recognizes that freedom, and seeks to inform our conscience of the merits of those choices.
So let us dispense with this notion of freedom that treats eating a fine meal with lacing it with cyanide. I am not less free simply I recognize the harm cyanide does and refuse to consume it. If anything, my knowledge of the harm cyanide causes makes me more free, since I can now exercise my choices in an informed fashion. True freedom seeks the truth, and truth fulfills freedom.
Friday, February 24, 2012
Choose the proven winner
It amuses me when I hear things like the Church should "get with the times." That it needs to bring its teachings in line with modern thinking about a variety of topics. It is funny because it is not the first time that the Church has been told this.
In every Age the world states this about the Church. Sometimes it uses cultural pressure, like in the 60s here in America. At other times it uses naked aggression to force to "get with the program" (like sadly in the 2010s in America). Personally I'm not sure why anyone is shocked. In America we have had a good run. But now it is time to join our brothers and sisters who are persecuted throughout the world.
The funny thing is that the world tries to bury the Church. Yet the Church continues to bury the corpses of the latest trend. The societal fashion of ideas that break from the Church and intend to set the world on fire (sometimes quite literally) do not last. The Church has outlasted them all.
We have seen the persecution in the past. Our Faith is persecuted now in other parts of the world. That it happens here is only "new" in the sense of the last 60 years or so. Persecution is an old hat for the Catholic Faith.
But a curious thing keeps happening. The Church doesn't seem to get the clue that it is supposed to go away. She doesn't "get the message." Like the guest that would't leave She patiently reminds people that gorging on the foods and wines of this world will make you sick. When they laugh and hate Her for her "authoritarian" attitude, they mock her and then beat her. But eventually the others collapse and die from the very thing She tried to warn them about. And she buries the corpses of those who mistreated Her so.
Don't believe the headlines. The Church is here to stay. It might not persist in America. While the Rock of Peter will never be abandoned, the Church in America has no such promise. But the Church Herself will remain, when the dust has settled.
So in the latest tussle between Church and the world let's remember who has the proven track record in such fights. The count is quite lopsided. And let's face it. The world has taken a beating in this fight since 33AD. Sure it has looked like it had the upper hand at some points, but really, like a show that has jumped the shark, the world is once again past its prime. That is why it lashes out so.
So take heart, Catholics one and all. The Church is here to stay. And She welcomes all guests. But she does have a code of conduct. You will have to man up.
But when you look at who else is out there, why not choose the proven winner?
In every Age the world states this about the Church. Sometimes it uses cultural pressure, like in the 60s here in America. At other times it uses naked aggression to force to "get with the program" (like sadly in the 2010s in America). Personally I'm not sure why anyone is shocked. In America we have had a good run. But now it is time to join our brothers and sisters who are persecuted throughout the world.
The funny thing is that the world tries to bury the Church. Yet the Church continues to bury the corpses of the latest trend. The societal fashion of ideas that break from the Church and intend to set the world on fire (sometimes quite literally) do not last. The Church has outlasted them all.
We have seen the persecution in the past. Our Faith is persecuted now in other parts of the world. That it happens here is only "new" in the sense of the last 60 years or so. Persecution is an old hat for the Catholic Faith.
But a curious thing keeps happening. The Church doesn't seem to get the clue that it is supposed to go away. She doesn't "get the message." Like the guest that would't leave She patiently reminds people that gorging on the foods and wines of this world will make you sick. When they laugh and hate Her for her "authoritarian" attitude, they mock her and then beat her. But eventually the others collapse and die from the very thing She tried to warn them about. And she buries the corpses of those who mistreated Her so.
Don't believe the headlines. The Church is here to stay. It might not persist in America. While the Rock of Peter will never be abandoned, the Church in America has no such promise. But the Church Herself will remain, when the dust has settled.
So in the latest tussle between Church and the world let's remember who has the proven track record in such fights. The count is quite lopsided. And let's face it. The world has taken a beating in this fight since 33AD. Sure it has looked like it had the upper hand at some points, but really, like a show that has jumped the shark, the world is once again past its prime. That is why it lashes out so.
So take heart, Catholics one and all. The Church is here to stay. And She welcomes all guests. But she does have a code of conduct. You will have to man up.
But when you look at who else is out there, why not choose the proven winner?
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Looking forward to Lent and beyond
The trappings of this world distract us 24/7. This does not simply mean our iPods and other devices that provide us with on-demand entertainment. They certainly play a role, but what I am talking about goes deeper into our spirits.
The world distracts us by providing illusions of security. Fame, money, power are the main things. Money in particular is a precarious vice, as too often rather than "In God we Trust" we put our trust more in the paper that bears the inscription. We build these illusions of security, then panic at the first sign that of the dissipation of those illusions.
Our political scene of the day is anther fine example of this. Our ideologies are argued and played out on the field of politics. Is something wrong? Pass a law against it. Is something good? Force people to fund it. This is why we fear the "other side." Right vs. Left. We tell ourselves that as long as we hold the power via voting for the right person, we are safe. We appeal to the raw power of naked aggression to protect us and maintain the illusions of security and freedom.
With the timing that only God can arrange we Catholics now enter the season of Lent. The world with the state it is in and our illusions of security and prosperity crumbling around us we find ourselves in a real panic. We now find ourselves on the brink of a persecution not seen on this side of the Civil War. I cannot help but marvel at the timing. The sign given to us that now more than ever we must recommit ourselves to God.
We do this by acknowledging both our sins and our mortality on Ash Wednesday. The call of Lent is to look at our lives and see what hinders our journey to God. What do we cling to in life? Money? Sex? Prestige? What ties us to this world, rather than focusing on the next?
We do not do these things to wallow in self pity. We do them to acknowledge the reality of the situation. We have sinned, and sinned greatly. We need God and His love to pull us out of the mire that we have sunk to. We have become lost and distracted, confusing creation with the Creator. We confess that we need more than help, we need a Savior.
Lent is a time to prepare our souls. By acknowledging our sins we begin to see the chains in our lives. We perform acts of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving, to bring our focus back to where it belongs. To turn away from ourselves to look out toward God, the true source of security and freedom.
We do so with the hope and conviction that God hears the cry of the poor, spiritual or otherwise. And we are that poor. But we are also made in the image of God. And He loves His own. By acts of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving we return to the true focus of who we are by pointing beyond ourselves. And after that time of refocus and purification, we behold the rising of the sun in the east. The Light that came into the world for our sake.
The new Sabbath dawns for us. But we must have eyes to see it. And we can only see it if we are looking in His direction.
Monday, February 20, 2012
Why do we keep ourselves ignorant Pt 2
We discussed in our previous post the reason why we unintentionally keep ourselves ignorant. The natural means of classification that we use in our everyday lives, while at times useful, can also be a barrier to further understanding. In this post we will look at how we intentionally keep ourselves ignorant and why.
Humans relate to the world through a particular worldview. We have carefully constructed ideas about how the world works and our role in it. We like to think that this is view is based off of reasoned thought and universal experience.
Like our previous post this is not only natural but a legitimate viewpoint to an extent. Our reasoning and experiences DO matter. They are real and do in fact have value. And such reasoning and experience can form the basis for discovering objective truths about our existence.
Also like our previous post though this is limited due to our natural limits. We do not have the experiences of others nor do we have unlimited capabilities to reason. Thus our perspective, regardless of how earnest deliberate our efforts are, will still be lacking in completeness.
So one would naturally think that because of this limitation that we would be motivated to learn all we can and modify our views accordingly. But you would be very wrong.
The problem is that we often attach pride to our reasoning. We like to be thought of as "intelligent." Our worldview must be correct with regard to certain principles. And we are not very fond of challenges to such our viewpoints at certain fundamental levels. This is why we react very strongly to things involving core principles, such as religion and politics.
As humans we are aware of a very real war between truth and untruth. We perceive it at a very fundamental level. This is why even atheists, who reject objective truth, do so as if truth actually matters in such a viewpoint. And if you reject objective truth, why would you bother learning about the views of those who disagree with you? If my ideas are reasonable (and they are, because I am a reasonable person) then reason naturally leads to them. If my opponents used reason, they would agree with me. But they don't, so they are unreasonable.
It is far easier to demonize those who have different views than learn about those views. This is because we are secretly afraid to actually learn, and by extension possibly finding that their views are reasonable. The narrative of me = good and other = evil is challenged when we actually have to learn about the enemy.
But there is an even deeper reason. Those who fear to learn the truth about others do so because we would have to confront our own false views. People who believe lies are afraid of truth. Those who misrepresent others in a certain sense already know their own views are lies. This is why they must represent others.
So this how we intentionally keep ourselves ignorant and why. By ignoring the truth about others we "protect" our limited worldview and therefore our pride. This is especially true with regard to the lies in that view that we suspect are in fact lies. Ignorance is always part limited knowledge and part willful attempt to keep it that way.
BONUS:
Completely unrelated, here is a video I've been listening to. It's the show Glee's main actor Matthew Morrison and guest star Niel Patrick Harris singing Aerosmith's "Dream On". I know, I know. But give it a chance. It's pretty good actually. I like it better than the original. Note that the song is on the video twice, and there is no actual video, only the song.
Humans relate to the world through a particular worldview. We have carefully constructed ideas about how the world works and our role in it. We like to think that this is view is based off of reasoned thought and universal experience.
Like our previous post this is not only natural but a legitimate viewpoint to an extent. Our reasoning and experiences DO matter. They are real and do in fact have value. And such reasoning and experience can form the basis for discovering objective truths about our existence.
Also like our previous post though this is limited due to our natural limits. We do not have the experiences of others nor do we have unlimited capabilities to reason. Thus our perspective, regardless of how earnest deliberate our efforts are, will still be lacking in completeness.
So one would naturally think that because of this limitation that we would be motivated to learn all we can and modify our views accordingly. But you would be very wrong.
The problem is that we often attach pride to our reasoning. We like to be thought of as "intelligent." Our worldview must be correct with regard to certain principles. And we are not very fond of challenges to such our viewpoints at certain fundamental levels. This is why we react very strongly to things involving core principles, such as religion and politics.
As humans we are aware of a very real war between truth and untruth. We perceive it at a very fundamental level. This is why even atheists, who reject objective truth, do so as if truth actually matters in such a viewpoint. And if you reject objective truth, why would you bother learning about the views of those who disagree with you? If my ideas are reasonable (and they are, because I am a reasonable person) then reason naturally leads to them. If my opponents used reason, they would agree with me. But they don't, so they are unreasonable.
It is far easier to demonize those who have different views than learn about those views. This is because we are secretly afraid to actually learn, and by extension possibly finding that their views are reasonable. The narrative of me = good and other = evil is challenged when we actually have to learn about the enemy.
But there is an even deeper reason. Those who fear to learn the truth about others do so because we would have to confront our own false views. People who believe lies are afraid of truth. Those who misrepresent others in a certain sense already know their own views are lies. This is why they must represent others.
So this how we intentionally keep ourselves ignorant and why. By ignoring the truth about others we "protect" our limited worldview and therefore our pride. This is especially true with regard to the lies in that view that we suspect are in fact lies. Ignorance is always part limited knowledge and part willful attempt to keep it that way.
BONUS:
Completely unrelated, here is a video I've been listening to. It's the show Glee's main actor Matthew Morrison and guest star Niel Patrick Harris singing Aerosmith's "Dream On". I know, I know. But give it a chance. It's pretty good actually. I like it better than the original. Note that the song is on the video twice, and there is no actual video, only the song.
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